This is a repost from last year and now this piece is on the last page of my book. I was pondering this week’s prompt of the word WHY and this piece seemed appropriate.
Love Momentarily Stopped Death Today
Working in the healthcare field illness is all around; even lunchtime conversations are filled with descriptions of disease. Covering many floors, I meet all types of people including other co-workers. The single word that comes to mind is WHY.
Why am I here? Why can’t I get better? Why can’t I leave? Why do I have to suffer? Why is my loved one dying? The last question is the hardest to be asked by anyone who has a loved one in a hospital bed. It is truly heartbreaking to watch someone you love slowly fade away into death’s arms. Because suffering is a part of the last unknown in this life.
When going from floor to floor, hearing these questions, and since I am not a qualified medical professional. I will give the patient or family member a sympathetic ear. Reassuring them I will speak to my case manager. Reassuring them the case manager will stop by the patient’s room to address their concerns.
Leaving the room a silent prayer runs through my mind on their behalf. This is something I have done all my life after speaking to anyone who is in distress.
It was a typical busy day and so looking forward to my lunch break. My co-workers and I sat at the usual table near the gift shop.
Talking about our day and the activities after work. All of a sudden, the cafeteria was buzzing concerning a wedding that will be taking place at 3 pm in the chapel. A wedding in the hospital! We thought we were hearing just a silly rumor.
Until our nursing director, Matt, said, “Yes ladies, there will be a wedding today at 3 pm in the chapel. The daughter of one of our hospice patients came to see me yesterday. She asked permission to use the chapel so she and her fiancé can get married before anything happens to her dad. The family has invited the entire hospital staff to attend.”
No sooner than we thanked Matt for the invitation. Members of the cafeteria staff were rolling carts filled with beautiful white flowers, food and a white wedding cake. We were amazed how quickly everything was coming together. Just like life, it quickly gets away from us. Even though I couldn’t attend since our department’s caseload doesn’t give us the opportunity to breathe.
The stroke of 4:30 pm chimed to clock out and just as I was passing by the chapel, the air of beauty permeated into the hallway. A family mixed with hospital staff celebrating a marriage. Thinking to myself despite all of the uncertainty of our lives. Love momentarily stopped death. No matter what we are going through in the end, it is all about love… https://weeklyprompts.com/2023/10/28/weekly-prompts-weekend-challenge-why/
Beautiful!
They say that even in the Nazi camps, the urge to life was so great that young people fell in love, got married, had children.
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Beautiful.
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Thank you, Nicole. Have an awesome week.
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When death is so close, there’s never enough time to say and do what each of wants before the final moment. Your lovely post brought bittersweet tears to my eyes.
Thank you for sharing it with our challenge, Mary Anne.
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Sue, that is so true. We hold back on many of our hopes and dreams. For whatever reason and towards the end of our lives, regret can set in.
I am glad that over a year ago, you responded to one of my first posts. Have a wonderful week.
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this was so well written.
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Thank you very much
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Beautifully written ♥
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Thank you
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